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The Husbands by Holly Gramazio | Book Review

Oh My God, What a Complete Aisling meets Groundhog Day. The Husbands is an absolutely hilarious novel about a woman who comes home from a hen party and finds a man in her London flat. Most alarming is that it turns out he is her husband. She has zero memories of him or getting married. As she panic scrolls through her phone, it becomes obvious that either he is an amazing spy who has infiltrated her digital life, as well as her flat, OR she is actually married. WTF.

My first thought was that poor Lauren has early onset dementia. But no. She has a magic attic. When one husband goes up, another comes down. Lauren filters through these men faster that you could swipe left or right on Tinder. There are a few keepers, but they only last a few days. The most promising one, Carter, inadvertently enters the attic and he’s lost to her forever. The least promising husband, Amos, appears a few times and he is as terrible as the Amos she broke up pre-magic attic.

Lauren has an infinite number of possible husbands but as she swaps one version of her life for another, the philosophical question arises: when will she stop looking for the best life and start living the one she has?

I thought this novel was really funny. The Husbands audiobook is a hoot. The narration is fabulous. The end of chapter 12 has a wonderful bit of back and forth between Lauren and two friends, one of whom is getting married. The dialogue is really cheeky and had me laughing out loud.

If you like Matt Haig’s The Life Impossible then you’ll enjoy this bit of romance meets magical realism. It’s a great debut from Holly Gramazio.

Read a sample or listen on Audible on Amazon.

The Tenants by Pat Dobie | Book Review

The Tenants by Pat Dobie is a delight. Gosh, I have had such a string of mediocre reads that I was worried. But this little novel is charming and gritty. The Tenants is the winner of the 45th annual 3-day novel contest. The writing is tight and evocative, just like the Vancouver housing situation. Ok, maybe that sounds dull. But no! The Tenants is about three Vancouverites. Dave and Scott are partners who live in a rental off Victoria drive. Maeve is a homeless woman who is tenting near the blackberry bushes in an unattended/undeveloped area nearby. Happenstance brings the three of them together. And I think what’s so delightful is that you learn just enough about each characters in the same way you might if you too randomly met a neighbour over a few intersecting errands.

Writing a novel in three days requires an economy of language, and that perfectly suits the character of overly frugal Scott. It also suits Maeve, whose survival is too limit how much she says to anybody. Dave is perhaps the most hospitable in that he interacts with Maeve, welcomes her into the secret garden he’s developing on city land, but he too is holding back. So the writing style, the time constraints of the contest, and the constraints of living in an overly expensive city make this weirdly funny story a page turner. Maybe you have to live here to get it, but the story struck a chord for me.

Kiss of the Fur Queen by Tomson Highway | Book Review

First published in 1998, Kiss of the Fur Queen opens like a Greek tragedy. We are introduced to the Okimasis family through the caribou-hunter father, Abraham Okimasis, who is striving to win a dog-sled race, which seals upon himself and his family the kiss of the crowned Fur Queen.

Abraham names his next-born child Champion. And early on, Champion is a gifted musician. The next boy, Ooneemeetoo, is a gift dancer. The two boys, born in northern Manitoba, move through their world, hunting caribou with their parents and making music and dances for their family. These are well-loved boys.

When Champion is taken to residential school, he is excited to fly in the small airplane, but sad to leave his little brother. At school his hair is shaved, he is forbidden to speak Cree, and he is renamed Jeremiah. Jeremiah’s only highlight is discovering a piano and convincing the head priest to allow a nun to teach him.

Two years later his little brother joins him at school and is renamed Gabriel. Gabriel is an angel. His face is described as being so lovely that your heart aches; and of course he becomes prey to the priest.

The first part of the novel has so many Greek elements, in particular the repeating and spinning of the tale of the Fur Queen. In Greek tragedy, Athena—the bright eyed goddess—is described as the goddess of wisdom, craft, and battle. The Fur Queen appears many times in the story in different guises—perhaps meant to be a Trickster—but I think the Fur Queen is more like Athena.

More clear is that Greek tragedy deals with big themes of love, loss, pride, the abuse of power and the fraught relationships between men and gods. Kiss of the Fur Queen goes deep with these themes too.

The love between the brothers, loss of connection to family and culture, pride of personal artistic achievements, the abuse of power by members of the Catholic Church, and the fraught relationship both brothers have with god/God.

Residential school takes the boys away from their community and inserts them into melting pot of Cree children taken from across the North, who are then given new names, language, and religion. The boys are abused by the priests and this emotionally distances them from their Catholic-convert parents. As they grow up and move to the city to pursue their artistic gifts, they are away from the priests but not from the hostilities and limiting beliefs of colonialism. The triumph is that Jeremiah and Gabriel break expectations. Jeremiah becomes a concert pianist and playwright. Gabriel becomes a professional ballet dancer.

Kiss of the Fur Queen is a beautifully written novel of heartbreak and truth, told at a high cost. The mix of Cree words and mythology creates a sense of musicality that weaves through the story and echoes the life of the author.

Tomson Highway, like Jeremiah, is a playwright and musician. His brother Rene was an accomplished dancer and choreographer, who died too young. Their father was a caribou hunter. I do not know if the novel is autobiographical, but it draws on certain elements of their lives and reflects many of the traumas Indigenous children experienced.

Published by Penguin Random House Canada: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.ca/books/79881/kiss-of-the-fur-queen-by-tomson-highway/9780385697217

Impossible Creatures by Katherine Rundell | Book Review

Impossible Creatures by Katherine Rundell was the YA novel for the 2024 holiday season. Every store was promoting it as “an instant classic.” I don’t know. I was willing to love it, but actually it was only ok. It did not capture me the way Harry Potter, Percy Jackson or even The Chronicles of Narnia did. But lots of people who read similar things that I like, did love it.

Impossible Creatures is magical adventure that sweeps young Christopher into a landscape of mythical creatures that he must help save with his new friend Mal. Along the way they meet useful adults, dragons, and other creatures who help them understand what is happening to the glimourie (the magical substance that supports life in this land) and how to save not just the magical world but also Christopher’s world.

The writing is functional. You are not struck with too much detail nor too little. But each character serves to advance the plot. It’s very linear, which is ok but definitely not the making of an instant classic. It’s no Philip Pullman. I’d recommend this for young readers (5-8) who are able to deal with older reader (8-12) storylines that involve a bit of suspense, death of a character and some violence but nothing close to Harry Potter or Percy Jackson. If you like the Dragon Masters series then this is a good next read.

Year in Review | 2024

I read so many great books this year! Here are my favourites.

  • Little Fires Everywhere by Celeste Ng: Teen drama and exploration of family dynamics, privilege, and the weight of secrets in a small, suburban community.
  • Hell of a Book by Jason Mott: A surreal and poignant look at race, identity, and the power of storytelling (brilliant social commentary masked as a brilliant novel).
  • Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow by Gabrielle Zevin: Buddy novel about ambition and creativity through the lens of video game design.
  • The Great Believers by Rebecca Makkai: A deeply moving story of friends surviving the AIDS crisis in 1980s Chicago and its rippling effects decades later.
  • Prophet Song by Paul Lynch: A harrowing, dystopian novel about surviving society’s slide into authoritarianism.
  • True Biz by Sara Novic: Cheeky and enlightening story about kids at a Deaf boarding school and the challenges they face from inside and outside the Deaf community.
  • Maame by Jessica George: Charming and difficult story of a young second-generation English woman coming into her own while navigating the cultural expectations of Ghanaian parents, grief, and self-discovery.
  • In Search of Perfumes by Dominique Roques: A fascinating journey around the world from a perfume-maker’s perspective.
  • Wavewalker by Suzanne Heywood: A memoir set on the high seas, told by a reluctant sailor.
  • Dune by Frank Herbert. An epic science fiction saga of power, politics, and ecology set on a desert planet. Totally engrossing.
  • Mindful of Murder by Susan Juby: A delightful mystery featuring an unwitting Buddhist nun turned detective.
  • Good Energy by Dr. Casey Means: A science-backed guide to cultivating vitality and emotional well-being in modern life.
  • The Briar Club by Kate Quinn: A dramatic, historical fiction novel set in a boarding house during the McCarthy era.
  • Long Island by Colm Toibin: A richly woven narrative about love, memory, and identity in small communities (well, at least within a large Italian family in America and a large Irish family in Ireland).
  • The Housekeepers by Alex Hay: A clever and suspenseful heist novel where the help steal everything in a wealthy Edwardian household (or attempt to).
  • The Secret Hours by Mick Herron: A gripping spy thriller that delves into Cold War secrets and modern-day espionage.
  • I Hope This Finds You Well by Natalie Sue: Office politics writ large as an admin/accountant accidentally gains access to the entire company’s digital files, emails and private messages. Funny and heartbreaking.

Other 2024 Favourites

  • LA: We did a family trip to LA for my son’s U11 hockey tournament on the Martin Luther King weekend. At Universal we did early entry to Marioland, which was super fun. And I got to introduce my son to the Wizarding World of Harry Potter. Then we explored Laguna Beach and Disneyland and Irving for the tournament, which the kids won.
  • Orcas Island: To celebrate Canada Day and Independence Day, we went by boat to visit friends on Orcas Island. It was the first time we have crossed the border by boat. Quite the experience! And we had an amazing time with our excellent hosts.
  • Pender and Salt Spring visits are always enjoyable and the ladies’ weekend on Pender was a blast.
  • Quadra Island camping trip: The buddies are always game. And Isaac hosted an amazing lunch for 10 of us, plus 2 dogs.

Other notable activities

  • Tyee dinner at Upstart & Crow. I had a wonderfully academic and engaging dinner discussing the nature of news media in Canada and the future of news with a diverse group of dinner guests.
  • Julie visits are always nourishing and some of my best times. This year’s birthday included facials, the Culture Crawl and a Cultch performance, plus drinks at Havana.
  • The Goomba II. We bought a ridged hull inflatable and figured out how to drive it.
  • Pie Shoppe. I did an amazing pie making workshop with Stephanie and a restaurant group doing a team building exercise. It was hilarious and fun. My pie was delicious. And then in the fall the Pie Shoppe closed. Booooo. I miss their pizza pies the most.
  • Claire Tansey taught Fin to cook. He regularly knocks out grill cheese, pasta alfredo, and a killer lemon cake.
  • Jon Batiste was my only concert this year and he delivered.
  • National Ballet School online classes have got me back on my toes. Literally.
  • Ger & Karl visited from Ireland.
  • Andrea introduced me to foot massages.
  • Trevor continues to invite me for coffee chats that reignite my brain.
  • Mike invited me to Pacific Future AI Film Festival and I was enamoured with Loretta Sarah Todd’s work. Her ethereal sea and forest creatures haunt my mind.
  • Canucks. They lost but I had row 12 seats so it was super fun.

History of the Rain by Niall Williams | Book Review

Longlisted for the 2014 Man Book Prize, History of the Rain is one of those books that I meant to read at the time but forgot about, until recently.

If you liked Long Island by Colm Toibin then you’ll enjoy this even more poetic look at life in Faha, a small village in County Clare, on the banks of the river Shannon. Here we meet Ruthie Swain who is home from college and bedridden. Her illness is not clearly revealed but through lopping stories we discover all the tales of her family tree from the Reverend Swain all the way down to her twin brother.

The novel is not magic realism but there is some otherworldliness to it, men turning into salmon and the like, but there is also a steady stream of literary references from Virgil to Charles Dickens to William Blake to Robert Louis Stevenson. It’s a literary lover’s dream novel.

History of the Rain is sad and affecting, it’s full of longing and loss but also it’s a great love story.

The Creative Act by Rick Rubin | Book Review

The Creative Act promises to be an inspiring look at the work of the artist and how anyone can connect with their own creativity. Bollocks. I really expected more from Rick Rubin. He’s legendary and yet there are very few anecdotes about his music producing days, there are a handful of exercises minimally described, and overall it is a boring read.

The packaging is lovely. I own a print copy. But the first few chapters were a slog. I thought listening to the audiobook might be better, given that he’s a music producer. Nope. Alas, there is no path illuminated.

I did enjoy the chapter on Habits and another on Collaboration. Aside from that, is it the bestseller nobody read? Or does it resonate with people who are not naturally creative? Did I miss something?

I Hope This Finds You Well by Natalie Sue | Book Review

I Hope This Finds You Well is a Canadian version of The Office. Jolene hates her job but she needs it. Her colleagues drive her mad and she does, what any reasonable employee does, she snarks about them privately. Well, maybe not privately enough. Jolene has taken to responding to emails with her actual thoughts typed below her professional response. She whites out the text so that it’s white on white and invisible to the recipient. Until one day, she forgets.

As expected, Jolene finds herself in a disciplinary hearing with her boss and the new HR guy Cliff. Cliff is tasked with putting monitoring software on her computer and running her through some mandatory training sessions. Thing is, Cliff makes a mistake and instead of dialling back what Jolene can do, she suddenly has access to everything. Everyone’s inbox, everyone’s chat, everyone’s shared drive is accessible from her computer. With the cheatcodes to office life, Jolene figures out how to win friends and influence people.

As Jolene is drawn into the drama of each of her colleague’s lives, she learns their secret fears and some of the motivations behind their actions. They say hurtful things about her, but she can’t resist reading everything and then adjusting accordingly.

You know as the reader that this is all going to bite her in the arse, but it is a hilarious adventure. Jolene has a ton of snark and her word sparring with Cliff in HR is top notch.

This is a sad book but also a laugh-out-loud book. I Hope This Finds You Well has a cast of characters found in any workplace and a list of puny chapter titles. It’s like getting the last donut at the office party and it’s your favourite flavour.

If you liked How to Pronounce Knife then this story reflects the same tender comedy about loneliness and love, and immigrant parents. If you like debut fiction or the eccentricities of second-generation Canadians or wacky coworkers then this work culture, semi-romcom set in Calgary is a satisfying read.

Outlive by Peter Attia | Book Review

Outlive by Peter Attia is one of those bestsellers that you cannot avoid. Originally published in March 2023, Attia made the rounds on the podcast circuits, published any number of guest articles, and appeared on multiple talk shows. But I don’t begrudge him the success (2 million copies sold so far). The book is an in-depth manifesto on increasing your health span (healthy years of life). It’s not just about longevity. Attia really wants people to live better, not just longer.

The first half of the book looks at each of the 4 horsemen: heart disease, cancer, neurodegenerative disease (i.e., Alzheimer’s), and Type 2 diabetes and related metabolic dysfunction.

The second half of the book outlines practical steps that anyone can take to improve their own life and ideally avoid things that increase risk of one or more of the four horsemen coming for you.

The key takeaways are:

  • Modern medicine is not so modern. It is great at dealing with infection and trauma. But we wait too long to treat chronic disease. Instead of looking at biomarkers on a continuum and addressing issues in advance of blood work or other issues falling outside the guidelines, we wait, until it’s too late to reverse track.
  • Blood work “standards” or the range for healthy blood work is a shifting scale. It’s a standard based on what is “normal” today in the population, not what is actually healthy.
  • Exercise is under-rated and we should really be thinking like centenarians. To open a jar at 90 or carry your groceries down the block at 80 or to hike up a hill at 70 — you really have to think about how active you are in your 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s. If you can’t do it now, there is no chance you can at 90. Attia has a ton of information on how to approach fitness.
  • The feverish cult-like behaviour around food and diet needs to dial down. A lot of the food adjustments people make are based on studies done on fasting studies in mice, for example. Many studies do not translate to human subjects. Attia calls out many of these studies and outlines how his thinking on the role of food has changed.
  • Sleep should be taken seriously. We haven’t evolved to not need sleep for a reason. It’s critical. Attia has a number of terrifying anecdotes about life as a resident, doctor, surgeon and why we dismiss this necessary state of being.
  • Mental health is the last issue Attia addresses in the book and all I can say is that it is a miserable life you do not have good emotional regulation, good relationships, and a good sense of self.

Overall I enjoyed this book. I listened to it as an audiobook and in some ways Attia’s narration kept me going. There is a bit of a slog through theory and studies and medical information. But the autobiographical elements of the book keep it interesting, and help the reader apply the lessons to their own situation. I have now purchased the print copy so I have it as a reference.

If you liked Good Energy by Casey Means then this is the precursor to that book. They must have been writing at similar times since the books are published only a year apart. Perhaps most telling is that here are two medical professionals who are sounding the alarm about North American’s poor metabolic health. These books are more than a warning sign. They are an essential read.

Haunting in the Arctic by C.J. Cooke

A deserted shipwreck off the Icelandic coast draws a group of explorers to her decks. Three of the four know each other and are travelling as a group, but the solo explorer Dominique arrives first and is put out by their presence but also reassured by them since she’s pretty sure she saw a ghost woman roaming the shores. The shipwreck is that of the Ormen, which originally was a whaling ship in the 1900s then in the 1970s became a research vessel. Dominique and the others are there to document the ship before the coast guard finally pulls it free from the shore and sinks it forever.

The story bounces between life in 1901 on board the Ormen, in which Nicky Duthie is being held against her will by the crew due to her father’s poor business choices and life in present-day 2023 where the urban explorers are doing parkour, TikToks, and other influencer activities to document their discoveries and build up an audience.

The story is really about trauma and revenge, and a little about forgiveness. The brutal Icelandic weather and the icy seas give the novel a gothic feel, while technology and the lifestyle of the explorers anchor the story in the present. Although nothing is really anchored here. Nicky Duthie was never found. And it turns out the research crew in the 1970s mysteriously disappeared as well.

The Haunting in the Arctic lays bare a ton of secrets, misgivings, and betrayals from 1901 to present day.

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